When Parenting Feels Like a Burden

Parenting is hard. It’s one of the most challenging and rewarding things you’ll ever do, but it’s also tough. There are days when it feels like everything is a burden, and you just can’t catch a break. But don’t worry, you’re not alone. Every parent feels this way at some point.

Why Does Parenting Feel So Hard?


Any parent will tell you that raising children is no easy feat. So why does it often feel so hard? One big reason is that we are not meant to do this alone! In many cultures, parenting is seen as a community activity, with grandparents, aunts, uncles, and other relatives all playing a role in raising the next generation. In contrast, many parents today approach parenting from a ‘head’ vs. ‘heart’ space, relying on books and expert advice rather than trusting their instincts.

Additionally, our exposure to other families is often limited, leaving us feeling isolated and unsure of our choices. And, of course, there’s the added pressure of rapidly changing technology and the ever-evolving schooling system. With so much to juggle, it’s no wonder parenting feels hard.

Is It Normal to Feel Like a Failure As a Parent?

As any parent knows, there are good days and bad days. Some days you feel like you’re on top of the world, and other days you feel like a complete failure. So which is it? Is it normal to feel like a failure as a parent?

The answer is yes. It’s perfectly normal to have those days where everything goes wrong, and we’re such bad parents. And guess what? You’re not alone. Every parent has those days.

One of the best things you can do when you’re feeling overwhelmed is to take a break. Get a babysitter for a night and go out with your partner, or just take some time for yourself to relax and recharge. You’ll be surprised at how refreshed you feel after a little break. It’s essential to take deep breaths and take a step back to avoid parental burnout.

What is Parental Burnout?

Parental burnout is real, and it’s not just something that happens to work moms and dads. It can happen to any parent who is constantly juggling the demands of parenthood with the other demands of life. It’s the physical, mental, and emotional exhaustion that one feels from the chronic stress of parenting. And it can be absolutely debilitating.

And sometimes, despite our best intentions, we can find ourselves feeling burnt out. If you’re wondering whether you might be experiencing parental burnout, here are some signs to look out for: exhaustion, feelings of helplessness or self-doubt, changes in appetite or sleeping habits, poor health, detachment, isolating behaviors, and irritability. If you’re experiencing any of these things, you must reach out for help. Talk to your partner, friends, family, or a professional. You don’t have to do this parenting thing alone, and there is no shame in asking for help.

How to Deal With Parenting Stress


Parents today are under a lot of pressure. We’re expected to be perfect parents, have successful careers, maintain a happy marriage, and still find time for ourselves. It’s no wonder that so many of us feel stressed out! But it’s important to remember that we can’t be perfect parents. We all make mistakes, and that’s okay. The important thing is to learn from our mistakes and keep going.

One way to deal with parenting stress is to avoid bringing it home with you. When you’re at work, focus on work, and when you’re at home, focus on your family. It’s important to have some balance in your life. Another way to deal with stress is to seek out opportunities for fun. Go on dates with your spouse, play with your kids, and make time for hobbies that you enjoy. And don’t forget to relax and recharge! Take a hot bath, read a good book, or take a nap when you can. It’s also important to ask for backup when you need it. If your spouse or a friend offers to watch the kids so you can take a break, take them up on it!

Also, connect with fellow parents. You can commiserate with them about the highs and lows of parenting and know that you’re not in this alone. And you might find good advice from actual parents who are not writing parenting books for the money. Remember to take a break from it all. Even if it’s just for a few minutes, step away from the constant parenting grind and give yourself some time to relax. Finally, keep your life well-balanced. Make sure you care for yourself physically, emotionally, and mentally. When you’re at your best, you’ll be able to handle whatever parenting throws your way.

Final Thoughts

Managing stress is an ongoing process, and it takes effort and practice. We hope you picked something up from this article, and if you need to vent out, let us know in the comments below. Sharing our stories and experiences with other parents can help lighten the load—plus, it just feels good to be heard sometimes. Until next time!



I'm a Mom of two daughters, Freya and Ava. I love to share insights on how parents can be better parents. I write about topics that are relevant to me as a parent: things like parenting style, relationship, marriage, and balancing work and family.

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